|SUZY PALOMO, AGE 39, PHOENIX, ARIZONA, 6/28/00|
I was so glad to find a website with you on it and the fantastic movie you made. I could easily relate to many of your thoughts throughout the film. I am now 39 and have been married 10 years. As my husband & I got older, (we were 28 & 29 when we married - he had been previously married too), we realized that we did not want to "wait for something or someone better" to come along. We were happy together (we have not lost our passion - I still have butterflies when he kisses me which I JUST
LOVE..and we have 5 children between us - the last one we have
together), but when you know "its right" there is no reason to just let
time continue to pass you by. I was just hoping that you would share
some of this with Nick. I can understand his not "knowing how this is
suppossed to go" and his not knowing when he will know, but I was so
very much hoping he would propose to you by the end of the movie and
there would be a wedding picture of the two of you at the end. He seems
very nice, I can see why you are in love with him and he loves you - but
he needs to understand that life is TOO SHORT as I have realized as I
have lost very close family members in the past 3 1/2 years (my ex
husband, my father, my uncle and both of my husbands parents) you have to
grab any and all happiness that you can - and the two of you should grab
it together ! ! As husband and wife - I truly feel the two of you could
have a wonderful life together.
Best of Luck to you both !
P.S. - your parents were adorable !