|JANE & BRET MILLER, AGES 36 & 37, NEWTON CENTER, MASS, 7/30/00|
(FORMER WEDDING CLIENT OF NINA'S)
(Both of us are fighting for the keyboard right now, so be patient with our thoughts). First off, you movie had so many tones to it (tension, optimism, sadness, vulnerability, sarcasm). There are so many people who go through these situations but never take the time to express it in any way. So, providing people an opportunity to speak through your experience and feelings is great. We both went through the bulk of our 20's going through this too.
From a guy's perspective, I had to go through a lot of personal growth to be a complete partner to Jane. In other words, I had to go through a painful period that caused me to find the Bret that was complete. I don't know if that makes sense, but that's the very short version of my story.
We were really glad you chose to include our photos. It's funny how our paths cross, and yet me never knew that this dynamic was influencing you while photographing our wedding. It's funny...we actually went through our photos this morning, because we now had a better understanding of what you were feeling when you took them.
So...you've got to let us know how this whole thing plays out (the movie, the relationship with Nick, etc.). We wish you the very best.
Jane, Bret and Bret2